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62. What do you appreciate most in a friend?

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I appreciate all three qualities in my friends. It is important to me that my friends are intelligent, because I value intellectually stimulating conversation on meaningful topics. On the other hand, a friend with a good sense of humor can entertain and understands how to ease my sorrows by making me laugh in difficult times. However, only the reliable friend, by virtue of his dependability and loyalty, is guaranteed to stand by me in difficult times, and thus reliability is the most important characteristic I look for in a friend.

In my last year of senior school my three friends and I decided that we would study together for the college entrance exam, but my smartest friend hardly ever showed. She was extremely intelligent and everybody, including our teachers, was certain that she would be admitted to one of the best universities in the country. As a result, she did not bother to study much. At our study sessions she would appear occasionally, but more often than not her visits would distract us rather than help us. We would end up talking about metaphysical concepts like the existence of god instead of studying our lessons.

My humorous friend attended most of our meetings, but usually he was unprepared and we had to spend a lot of time getting him to speed up. He made us laugh, and he joked about how much better we were learning now that we had to teach him. Maybe he was right, but his constant lack of preparation became a steady source of frustration to the other two of us.

However, my third friend and I were able to rely on each other. We overcame our common frustrations and fears by completing the tasks we set out to do. During those long evenings when the work seemed unbearable we cheered each other up and kept working hard. Meanwhile our intelligent friend was minding her own business and our humorous friend was making somebody else laugh.

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62. 你最看重朋友的何种品质?

我对朋友的这三种品质都很欣赏对我来说聪明很重要因为聪明可以激发我们就有意义的话题进行对话从另一方面来说具有良好幽默感的朋友可以使人愉悦在我痛苦的时候可以逗我发笑忘记痛苦但是只有忠诚可靠的朋友在我困难的时候才能确保站在我身边所以我认为朋友应具备的最重要的品质是忠诚可靠

在我高中生活的最后一年我和几个朋友决定一起复习准备高考但是我们中最聪明的那位从没出现过她非常聪明每个人就连我们的老师都认为她会被国内最好的大学录取结果是她不怎么用功复习在我们学习的时候她只偶尔出现过几次可是她的每次出现几乎都打扰了我们而不是给我们帮了什么忙我们往往以谈论上帝的存在等形而上的概念结束一天的复习而不是一直在复习功课

我最有幽默感的朋友倒是经常和我们一起复习可是他往往根本就不做任何准备我们不得不花很多时间等待他赶上我们的进度他能够使我们大笑他开玩笑说我们学得太好了不得不花时间教他他的话也许是正确的但是他经常不准备功课使我和另外一个在一起学习的朋友感到很伤脑筋

但是我和第三个朋友就能够彼此信赖我们共同完成自己设定的任务来克服挫折和恐惧在那些漫长的难以忍受的黑夜中我们互相鼓励对方不要放弃坚持努力学习而那时我们那个聪明的朋友正在忙自己的事情幽默的朋友正在逗某个人发笑

Word List

  • intelligent [inˈtelədʒənt] adj. 聪明的机智的
  • ease [i:z] v.(使悠闲,(使放松
  • sorrow [ˈsa:rəu] n. 悲哀悲痛
  • dependability [deˌpendəˈbiliti] n. 可信任可靠性
  • loyalty [ˈlɔiəlti] n. 忠诚忠心
  • college entrance exam 高考
  • admit [ədˈmit] v. 容许承认接纳录取
  • metaphysical [ˌmetəˈfizikəl] adj. 纯粹哲学的
  • constant [ˈka:nstənt] adj. 不变的持续的
  • rely on 依赖依靠
  • cheer up 使振奋感到振奋